About Us!


The lessons we learned from our life experiences (the good, bad, and the ugly) allowed us to show up in the world as our most whole, real, happy, and excellent selves . . . and that’s when we found each other.

In a world that appeared to be completely incompatible to finding intimacy and love, we found it. Not only were we at a point in our lives where we were the most authentic version of ourselves, we got to know each other in our most natural states—without the ambiance of a fancy restaurant or the luxury of waxes and haircuts!

We were real with each other in every way, and now we truly have it all.

Meet Mr. & Mrs. Syphax

  • Cheri Syphax

    Executive by day, wife, entrepreneur, and witty host of the Leader and Lover Podcast by night.

    As a mother, lover, and agent for change with a passion to showcase the magic of Black women and the beauty of Black love, Cheri seeks to demystify the stereotype that black women can’t have it all. She is living proof that a black woman CAN have it all, and do it with style, class, and grace.

    Now don’t be fooled, Cheri didn’t always have the answers to help women attract the life of their dreams complete with the man of their dreams. She, at one time, also struggled to successfully navigate relationships—that was until she decided to conduct her own inner work and discover the power to make it all work.

    Cheri now uses her words & wisdom to empower others to do the same. Cheri’s journey has led her to meeting and marrying her husband Tracey, launching them further into purpose and inspiring the creation of Just The Phax.

  • Tracey Syphax

    When Mr. Tracey D Syphax isn’t busy being president and CEO of Phax Group LLC, a multimillion dollar real estate development company, he is helping others strive for excellence in life and in their relationships through his joint platform that he shares with his wife Cheri, Just The Phax.

    Mr. Syphax is an entrepreneur, advocate, and business maven who looks at the big issues of today through a bright, positive lens. Since May of 2019, Mr. Syphax has been a distinguished contributor to the Cannabis Trade Federation DEI Task Force. The Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Task Force is composed of experienced business leaders, all of whom are prepared to engage key stakeholders—including local, state and national policy makers—to strategically and legislatively foster accountability for equity, accessibility, and diversity within the cannabis industry.

    Named one of 25 most influential African Americans in New Jersey in 2016 he is also the Project Manager/Chief Estimator of the consulting firm Uplift Property Solutions New Jersey LLC.

    His life experiences have taught him the value of being the best version of yourself, and through his work, he inspires others to do the same.

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